We have plans,God decides

We wish something,we want everything,but we do nothing,at the end we won't got anything

As you do your best,God will give the best,trust me

Parents,are they really everything?

hayo iya ga iya ga?they are everything or someone that would give everything you want?orang tua pasti selalu nmr satu buat kita.tapi yakin ga kalo kita udah nunjukin ke mereka kalo mereka bener2 nmr satu buat kita?kadang kita ngerasa kalo mereka udah cukup seneng karna kita menomer 1 kan mereka,tapi kalian tau ga kalo waktu kalian mulai membantah mereka,memaksa mereka memberi apa yg km mau walaupun mereka sdg tdk mampu,atau ketika kamu mulai berkata dgn nada keras kpd mereka,saat itu juga kamu sudah menyingkirkan mereka dr nmr 1.

kalo dipikir2 sih emg biasa anak meminta sesuatu sambil memaksa.tapi kita bukan bayi,batita,atau balita lagi.kita harusnya tau kapan kita bisa minta sesuatu,kapan tidak.kita harusnya bisa mengerti kemampuan mereka.terus waktu mereka tetep ga bisa ngasih apa yg kita mau kita mulai marah dan berkata kasar sampai2 beteriak pd mereka.well,sedih ya kalo inget kita pernah ngelakuin yg satu ini.kita seakan2 ga bisa ngertiin orang yg kita nmr 1 kan.mereka bukan ngga mau,mereka berusaha tapi mereka ga bisa.kita harusnya bisa menahan kemauan kita karna tanpa kita tau ketika mereka memenuhi keinginan kita mereka dengan ikhlas menahan kemauan mereka.

hal yg lain,ketika mereka marah,melarang kita pergi,melarang kita pacaran,melarang kita ini itu trs kita marah dan akhirnya ga mau bicara sm mereka.disini jadi kita yang salah.yaaa mungkin sebagian orang tua emang terlalu keras sm anak2 mereka tapi kita tetep harus liat dr faktor2 yg bikin mereka kaya gitu.ntah dari masa lalu atau masalah lain.yg jelas kita dilarang keras marah atau berkata kasar ke mereka.kita ga pantes untuk marah atau berkata kasar sm mereka.kita belum bisa membahagiakan mereka ketika mereka sudah banyak membuat kita tersenyum.tapi yg kita bisa cuma memaksa,membentak,bahkan acuh tak acuh terhadap mereka.

kadang ada beberapa alasan kuat anak menganggap orang tuanya ga pantes di hormatin.mereka punya alesan sendiri untuk berfikir "coba aku bukan anak mereka".i can't say anything for this case but i just want you guys to appreciate what they've done to you.every life lessons that they gave to you.it's the best gift from them that you would never get from others.

jgn pernah sakitin orang tua kalian selagi kalian masih bisa.kita mungkin ga bisa buat mereka bangga,at least jgn sakitin mereka.karna waktu kita udah ga bisa,yg paling sakit justru kita :')

hugs&kisses for all parents in the world,

AnissaR

Jablay/Pecun/Perek/or whtvr

first,sorry if u think this post is bad or something like that.gue cuma mau memperjelas apa itu jablay sebenernya.

ok,pertama jablay itu apa sih?kenapa seorang cewe bisa disebut jablay atau semacamnya?apa karna mereka udah ga perawan lantas bisa di bilang jablay?atau cuma karna mereka dengan mudahnya ganti pacar atau punya pacar banyak jadi bisa disebut jablay?yes,itu yg bisa gue dapet dari pemikiran anak2 jaman sekarang.well gue mungkin pernah juga berfikiran kaya gitu ttg bbrp org dan karna itu gue bikin post ini.gue tau ada yg salah disini.mulai dari arti kata jablay,as we know,jablay itu cewe2 yg menjual diri mereka untuk di nikmati org.dgn kata lain mereka memberikan badan mereka untuk di apalah mereka menyebutnya demi mendapatkan uang.iya kan?sekarang apa bedanya jablay sm cewe murahan.well menurut gue jelas beda.disini jablay lebih jual mahal,dan cewe murahan tidak menjual tapi mereka juga seneng ngelakuinnya.sekarang kita bandingin sm cewe2 yg anak2 jaman sekarang sebut jablay.

1.cewe yg udah ga perawan di umur yg di bilang masih muda.yg satu ini kita ga bisa menjudge mereka sebagai jablay kecuali mereka memang menjual keperawanan mereka.tapi yg gue liat ketika cewe yg khilaf juga di sebut jablay.tp kalian tau ga sih kalo mereka jg gamau sampe kehilangan keperawanan.kita ga bisa nyalahin mereka.karna disini belum tentu mereka yg mau.kita bisa liat dr lingkungan mereka atau cowonya sendiri.kalo cewe gampangan mungkin beda ya.tp ttp mereka bukan jablay,karna sekali lagi jablay itu menjual diri sedangkan cewe2 yg kalian sebut jablay ngga jual diri.beda kan?jelas beda.

2.cewe yg dgn gampang dpt cowo baru.nah yg ini nih yg bikin gue ngga habis fikir.kalian yg blg mereka jablay iri atau marah karna cowo kalian di rebut?tolong yg ini udh jelas salah bgt.mereka bisa gampang dapet cowo karna mereka menarik bukan karna mereka jablaymlepas dari maksut si cowo macarin cewe ini.tapi kalian ga bisa ngejudge mereka jablay.ok?

3.cewe punya pacar banyak hahahha ini mah playgirl bukan jablay.cowo punya cewe banyak juga ga disebut gigolo karna mrk selingkuh kan?jadi jelas mrk ga bisa disebut jablay

4.tapi yg paling aneh itu kalo ada cewe yg clubbing,ngerokok,minum2 atau apapun itu trs disebut jablay.hell-oooo mereka have fun dan coba nikmatin hidup bukan jablay yg ngejual diri kay?apa salahnya coba kalo mrk clubbing?ngerokok?minum2?well emg sih yg kaya gini2 dilarang agama tp bukan brarti mrk jablay kan?

sekarang jelas presepsi kita soal jablay tuh salah.coba deh kalian pikir lagi,gimana kalo kita jadi mereka yg hilang keperawanannya karna ga sadar dan cowonya yg brengsek trs kita dijudge sebagai jablay?trus kita putus dan ga lama dpt pacar lagi yg udh bikin kita ga sedih lg trs kita di blg jablay?terus kita punya pacar banyak di bilang jablay sedangkan cowo kita punya selingkuhan banyak dan mrk ttp ga salah dgn alesan "cowo mah biasa",trs yg terakhir kita ngerokok trs tiba2 ada yg ngmng "liat deh,jablay abis cewe ngerokok".got it?kita harus bisa menempatkan suatu kata dgn tepat dan hanya kalau kita tau artinya apa.jgn sebut seorg cewe jablay kalo dia ngga jual diri ke org lain.sekali lg sorry kalo ada yg tersinggung,gue ga maksut nyindir atau apapun :)

p.s: untuk post yg ini menurut pemikiran gue yaa,kalo beda sm yg kalian pikirin ya sorry2 aja

xoxo,AnissaR

mantan

yg gue bahas disini mantan pacar nih.mantan pacar emm,pasti kalo denger kata ini respon paling banyak "aaaaaaaa kangen deh" kalo ga "ih najis,gue nyesel pernah pacaran sm dia" hahahaha.well biasa bgt.kenapa?soalnya kalo ga kita yg dijadikan mantan ya mereka yg menjadikan kita mantan.ngerti?harus.kadang kita mikir "kita putus gara2 gue,maaf bgt gue jahat" dan sebaliknya "kita putus gara2 lo tau ga?!brengsek lo" yakan yakan?iya dong

coba deh,pasti jarang yg mikir "wah apa kabar ya dia,mudah2an baik2 aja deh" karna pas putus jarang jg yg mikir "well,it's the way it is we have plan God decides" and move on.kadang emg susah sih buat bisa berfikir kaya gitu,gue jg ga muna.gue sering nyoba buat kaya gitu tp hasilnya?haha jangan tanya.tapi coba deh kalian pikirin lagi.putus bukan akhir dr segalanya ko.kita masih punya cerita lain yg bisa kita lanjutin sampe selesai.masih banyak yg nunggu kita.kita ga perlu nyesel atas apa yg kita lakuin atau mantan kita lakuin.well ngerasa bersalah emg harus tp bukan berarti kita harus terikat kan?kita juga ga perlu dendam sama mantan2 brengsek banyak gaya sok kegantengan.well they're not perfect neither us.inget umuuuuuur,kita masih muda,masih bisa have fun.kita ga harus terikat sm 1 org trs seolah2 bakal brgan trs sampe mati hahaha come on guys.gue pernah jg kaya gitu,tp abis itu?gue cuma bisa ngetawain diri sendiri.nangisin mantan biasa,sedih ga bisa ditutupin,tapi "ga bisa hidup tanda dia" itu udah ga jaman.kita tau sbnrnya ga gitu ko?yg ada tuh "ga bisa hidup tanpa makan dan minum" nah itu baru bener.kalo tanpa dia sih kita hidup mah hidup aja kali.nyawa masih nempel,kecuali lo bunuh diri.nah kalo udah gini sih lo aja yg gila -,- hahaha.

jadi intinya?ya gitu deh jgn lebay aja,kita hidup cuma sekali.nikmatin apapun yg lo dapet.putus ga sebesar masalah indonesia yg utangnya amit2 banyak bgt hahaha jadi tenang aja guys.lo ga bakal mati miskin karna putus,it's easy,just try to let ur heart breath,ur brain take a rest,smiling,wishing there will be a prince come to you,and start moving on.jgn lupa doa buat mantan kita supaya dia ngelupain kita segampang kita ngelupain mereka.tenang,yg bilang kalian jablay karna ini ga kalah jablaynya sm kalian :p

buat Teshara Sylvia yg sedang menanti mantanya kembali,ya tunggu aja tes.paling kalo ga tahan sm cewe sangar jg balik dia ke lo hahahahha yg tabah piggy.jodoh ga kemana haha

love,AnissaR

Song For RAJAWALI 2011 :')

And so we talked all night about the rest of our lives
Where we're gonna be when we turn 25
I keep thinking times will never change
Keep on thinking things will always be the same
But when we leave this year we won't be coming back
No more hanging out cause we're on a different track
And if you got something that you need to say
You better say it right now cause you don't have another day
Cause we're moving on and we can't slow down
These memories are playing like a film without sound
And I keep thinking of that night in June
I didn't know much of love
But it came too soon
And there was me and you
And then we got real blue
Stay at home talking on the telephone
And we would get so excitedand we'd get so scared
Laughing at ourselves thinking life's not fair
And this is how it feels

As we go on
We remember
All the times we
Had together
And as our lives change
From whatever
We will still be
Friends Forever

So if we get the big jobs
And we make the big money
When we look back now
Will our jokes still be funny?
Will we still remember everything we learned in school?
Still be trying to break every single rule
Will little brainy Bobby be the stockbroker man?
Can Heather find a job that won't interfere with her tan?
I keep, keep thinking that it's not goodbye
Keep on thinking it's a time to fly
And this is how it feels

La, la, la, la:
Yeah, yeah, yeah
La, la, la, la:
We will still be friends forever

Will we think about tomorrow like we think about now?
Can we survive it out there?
Can we make it somehow?
I guess I thought that this would never end
And suddenly it's like we're women and men
Will the past be a shadow that will follow us 'round?
Will these memories fade when I leave this town
I keep, keep thinking that it's not goodbye
Keep on thinking it's a time to fly

by:Vitamint C - Graduation Song

P.S: well it's still too soon to talk about this but yeah we have to realize as soon as possible,i don't want to have a problem with my school friends again,i want to graduate with peace and a lot of good memories,it's for you guys,i love you damn much RJWL 2011 :''')

Hey Soul Sister - Train

Hey Hey Hey

Your lipstick stains
On the front lobe of my left side brains
I knew I wouldn't forget you
And so I went and let you blow my mind
Your sweet moonbeam
The smell of you in every single dream I dream
I knew when we collided you're the one I have decided
Who's one of my kind

Hey soul sister, hey there mister, mister
On the radio, stereo
The way you move ain't fair you know
Hey soul sister, I don't wanna miss a single thing you do tonight

Hey Hey Hey

Just in time, I'm so glad you have a one track mind like me
You gave my life direction
A game show love connection, we can't deny
I'm so obsessed
My heart is bound to beat right out my untrimmed chest
I believe in you, like a virgin, you're Madonna
And I'm always gonna wanna blow your mind

Hey soul sister, hey there mister, mister
On the radio, stereo
Hey soul sister, I don't wanna miss a single thing you do tonight

Well you can cut a rug
Watching you is the only drug I need
So gangster, I'm so thug
You're the only one I'm dreaming of
You see I can be myself now finally
In fact there's nothing I cant be
I want the world to see you'll be with me

Hey soul sister, hey there mister, mister
On the radio, stereo
Hey soul sister, I don't wanna miss a single thing you do tonight

P.S: this song is dedicated to Garliana Kartasasmita,Dhianita Ariputri,Hilda Leswara,Ayuningdiah Tantri the best seniors i've ever had :') love u!

got it from yona's blog

5 Famous People to Invite to Your Dream Dinner Party, Dead or Alive.

1. Park JunSoo

2. Hwang Chansung

3.

Choi Siwon

4. Choi Kyuhyun

5. Justin Bieber

5 Bands/Musicians I’ve been Listening to A lot Lately.
1. Super Junior

2. 2PM

3. SHINee

4. A Rocket To The Moon

5. Justin Bieber

5 Things I’m addicted to.

1. Super Junior and 2PM

2. Twitter

3. iPod

4. Sims3

5. Soy milk

5 Biggest Celebrity Crushes.

1. Hwang Chansung

2. Park JunSoo

3.

Choi Siwon

4. Rain

5. Kim Kibum (Shinee)

5 Songs I Can’t Stop Listening to at the Moment.

1. Bonamana - Super Junior

2. Do You Remember - Jay Sean

3. Mr.Right - ARTTM

4. Cabi Song - 2PM&SNSD

5. Down (Piano Version) - Jay Sean

5 Your Dream Future: 1 Job/2 City/3 Car/4 Spouse/5 Pet.

1. Model

2. Seoul or LA

3. Brand new car

4. Hwang Chansung

5. dolphin

5 Things that Always Cheer Me Up.

1. Music

2. Rizal

3. Friends

4. My Room

5. K-pop videos

Down to Earth

I never thought that it be easy
Cause we both so distance now
And the walls are closing in on us
And we're wondering how
No one has a solid answer
But just walking in the dark
And you can see the look on my face
It just tells me apart

So its up to to you and its up to me
That we meet in our middle way
On our way back down to earth

Mommy you'll always and somewhere
And daddy I live outta down
So tell me how could I ever be normal somehow
You tell me this is for the best
So tell me why am I in tears
So far away and now I just need you here

So we fight through the hurt
And we cry
And we live and we learn
And we try and try and try and try

We fell so far away from where we used to be
Now we're standing and were do we go
When there's no road to get to your heart
Let's start over again

I never thought that it be easy
Cause we both so distance now
And the walls are closing in on us
And we're wondering how

Never Knew I Needed

For the way you changed my plans
For being the perfect distraction
For the way you took me
I knew that I had, everything that I wanted to have
You made me see there was something missing

For the ending of my first begin
And, for the rare and unexpected friend
For the way you're something that I would never choose
But at the same time something I don't wanna loose
I don't ever wanna be without him again

You're the best thing I never knew I needed
So, when you walked in, I had no idea
You're the best thing I never knew I needed
See now it's so clear I need you here

My accidental happily ever after
The way you smile now you've gone for me
With your laughter
I must admit you weren't a part of "My Book"
But, now if you open it up and take a look
You're the beginning and the end of every chapter

You're the best thing I never knew I needed
So when you walked in I had no idea
You're the best thing I never knew I needed
See, now it's so clear I need you here

Who knew that I could be?
So unexpectedly
Undesierabley happy. Oh so with you
Right here right here next to me

You're the best thing I never knew I needed
So when you walked in, I had no idea
You're the best thing I never knew I needed
See now it's so clear, I need you here always

Now it's so clear, I need you here always -R

New Concept!

well,hello reader,how r u?good?bad?flat?bored?i'm sick.not real sick,it's "sick" hahaha.i'm sick of this drama of life,everything around me are fake.my life is fake,i'm being fooled by my own life.everyone have two-face including me.i'm a twoface angel ha ha ha.LOL sorry for being so stupid.i'm just kiddin' cause i'm tottally fine.i just want to tell u guys that i changed my blog concept.now it's not only about my life.i'll post anything about life,mine yours theirs hers his,whoever.even better,i'll try to help you face your f*ckin' problems.good idea,isn't it?hope u all can enjoy my new concept of this blog and i hope i can help u.u can ask me at my f.me ----> www.formspring.me/icharuki and i promise u,i won't answer ur question on f.me if u don't want me to,ok?happy almost holiday guys!

yeah lifesucks,xOxO

Icha Gemero